I am not the same person I was before I got married. I was many things... To name a few: outgoing, positive, sociable, and I had a joy for life that was infectious. I loved life, and I loved myself. That is a really important thing - to love ourselves. I don't know where I… Continue reading Positivity
Today I received an email from my solicitor. My solicitor is a woman who commands respect, a little fear, and makes you stand up and pay attention. She is the kind of woman I would like to be more like. She is straight talking, fierce and won't take any cr*p. She says it how it… Continue reading Form E Amendments
In April 2014, some 6 months into our marriage, my husband and I were out for a walk when he told me he wanted us to have a baby now. This was a shock to me as hadn’t been on our “5-year plan”. I was halfway through my university degree, where I had decided to… Continue reading My pregnancy story
Sorry I’ve been a bit quiet on the blog front. I’ve been spending all my spare time completing my Form E. If you’ve never gone through the UK divorce process, then you’ll have no idea what a Form E is. Let me enlighten you. In short, the Form E is the most complicated financial form… Continue reading Completing Form E
Just keep blogging, just keep blogging, just keep blogging, blogging, blogging.... So, this weeks Weekly Round Up is a reflection on my blog really. My last two posts have been highly charged with emotion and I’ve felt like a giant black thunder cloud this week - lots of crying and self-loathing. Thank you to those… Continue reading Weekly Round Up – Week 4
On Monday I agreed to meet my ex in the evening to talk about our divorce. It was his request after he was served the other week. I turned up to a neutral location, where I sat under a Subway cctv camera...just in case. He arrived - late. Nonetheless, we sat and talked. He was… Continue reading Can you follow the thread?
Today is tough. It wasn’t meant to be a tough day. Today, Butterfly and I were meant to be going to a nature reserve barn to do outside arts and crafts. However the weather is so stormy - it was cancelled. With our plans changed, and the awful weather, I decided to tackle the loft.… Continue reading Having an emotional day